So yesterday, I was told by my so-called friend that I said something mean and hurtful. She's so dramatic, it's not even funny. I told her I was just saying the truth and if it hurts her, then oh, well, it's hers to deal with. I can't be responsible for making people feel happy if I'm telling the truth. Then she proceeds to try and berate me by saying stuff that is just not true, but she perceives it to be and only to get infuriated when I didn't respond in the juvenile manner in which she was acting. I told her she can be a real bitch, and she was telling me about her being opinionated. What crock of bullshit. She was not addressing her using her friend's weaknesses against them when she feels powerless or not in control of the situation or like she's being berated. For some reason that infuriated her even more so she started to throw things at me that she thought were going to get me mad or whatever, but I'm way better than that. I bet that she would have tried to beat my ass if she was in front of me, because she has no power against me. I told her that she's going to end up alone because of her temper, which is pretty toxic when you couple it with her insecurities.
She was only calling me to find out what she should do about her current boyfriend. I tried to let her know to take her time, but no, she wants to jump into bed with another guy a month after she had sex with her ex boyfriend who's her baby's father(talk about a dysfunctional family in the making)Again, she denies that she will be alone. I highly doubt it as her new boyfriend is already starting to call in sick and act all funny with her. That's how I was with her. She even started name-calling. I would have expected that from an 18 year old, not a 30 year old. I just let her spew whatever she wanted to spew because it didn't matter to me as she is not a friend to me. She just kept on going and going about how I was this and I was that. I admitted all my problems that include drinking, but I think she was hiding from hers. That's how defensive this broad can get when she feels like she can't control something. I think she needs psychiatric help because her daughter is going to grow up with a mom that's like that and that's not healthy for a little girl to be seeing her mom run through boyfriends left and right. she's plain insecure about herself and her fat body, lol. I'm sure somebody will want her after she's all used up by Isaac or whatever the fuck his name is. She's got a weight problem to top it off as well, so you know she's especially obnoxious. I remember getting to know her, the more I got to know her, the more I didn't want to know her. yeah, we had sex, but it wasn't the greatest. Mostly it wasn't great because she had deceived me in describing her weight.
I swear women that are conscious of their weight will not tell you their weight because, pretty much, they're fat....and don't want to disclose because it might discourage your wanting to date them. Of course I know this because my skinny exes always told me their weight if I asked them.
I have been telling everybody the damn truth and no being a "yes man" and some aren't taking it too well, so they have decided to bounce, only to my benefit because I could care less about any of them. They never really meant well and most liked twisting my opinion to their liking.
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