Sometime I wonder if I even want to date anymore. Every woman I've dealt with have no time or are so anxious that they'd rather leave me alone instead of getting to know me better. I try to be as patient as I can because I don't want to make the wrong decision, but I run into women who just want to move. Some have children from other men, which makes me uneasy. What I mean is what does this mean: that you were so anxious to make the guy your man that you just banged him without really knowing him and ended up with a baby and now he's no longer in the picture? How does that make any sense? I don't have any children and I don't plan to have any until I get my wife. That's the only way I want to live: my wife and my own child even if just one. Some women seem dumb while others are just plain anxious and want to rush quickly to make me their boyfriend without even knowing me. Already this girl I'm getting to know is talking about giving up on dating indirectly addressing me. I brush it off because, to me, if you don't want to wait, then you're not meant for me. Sorry, but as I get older I feel like I should watch who the hell I'm going to make my girl and possible wife because I don't want to make a mistake and marry the wrong woman. A woman who can't wait for me to make up my mind should not even consider dating until she's sure of what's going to happen, and take her time. It seems to me like most women just want that ideal boyfriend who makes them happy every day that he shows up. Well, infatuation is fine, but sooner or later, if you want a serious relationship, you should take the time to get to know the person. I don't get it anymore and I think I should just lay off on trying to get me a wife anymore and just let the chips fall where they may. It's probably just best. It keeps me from going to fast with some psycho bitch(of which I've encountered more than once!!) or the girl who jumps into a relationship soon as they break up with another guy. I end up being the rebound guy, which isn't fair. That can happen or they could end up being my rebound, which I'd rather not happen. So she's pretty much made up her mind and I'm not going to try and pursue her anymore because she's got a son and I'm not trying to deal with another single mother. Why can't these women invest their time in raising their child/ren instead of looking for a boyfriend.